We the unruly + socially unacceptable = serendipitous. welcome, Unruly.
Your Unruly Self is a guided mini-course in identity recalibration helping you BE DO HAVE more of what you want, because WHO you are BEing determines 90% of what becomes possible for you.
*Totally a made up number but I stand by it
Who you are BEing determines 90%* of what becomes possible for you
and "someday" isn't on the Matriarchy's founding team so...
Big dreams that stay in your Notes app.
Brilliant ideas & impacts that never see the light of day.
A vision for how you want life to feel.
It has never been about having more skills or the right strategy or the right time or another certification because you have spent literal YEARS proving you can do the work.
Credentials, accomplishments, certificates, results, promotions, recognition, maybe even some awards.
It's about recalibration because you absolutely have everything inside of you to make your big dreams happen, your impacts and ripples felt far and wide, and your life to feel fucking amazing.
You absolutely have everything you need inside you
Your Unruly Self just brings it out of hiding
I cross-my-heart-pinky-swear promise your dreams, bigger impacts, how you want life to feel are not on the other side of taking another course, working with another coach, buying another Claude skill, <insert dealer's choice but IKYKWIM>.
Not sorry for repeating myself here but you — WHO you are BEing — determines so much of what becomes possible for you.
Bigger stages, the book deal, recognition as a leading expert in your field, taking a year to volunteer in Haiti, more quality time with the family, more adventures, more sex — hell, maybe you want to try out a sex club for all I know (sounds like fun!).
And I know that making any of this or all of this or something decidedly different even possible is your Unruly identity.
The one who:
Untangles and unwinds from generational traumas including beliefs, patterns, stories, shame, societal and patriarchal b.s., etc. of what you can and can't or should or shouldn't BE DO HAVE
Gathers inputs and feedback from others but makes your own damn decisions based on what is ultimately right for you because your self-trust muscle has gotten lots and lots of practice
Knows how powerful and impactful you are and doesn't shy away from making the bold moves or putting yourself first sometimes because it helps you be the person you want to for others as well as make life a whole hell of a lot more fun and meaningful
Recognizes and re-orients back to your Unruly Self because life will absolutely life but the life and impact you're here to have is so damn important to you, you do the work to get back into alignment as many times as it takes
I could go on but why? You get the gist
Your Unruly Self
I'm not going to be the one to pretend this isn't work or that by going through this mini-course, you'll automagically fully be Your Unruly Self.
Identity work is some of the hardest, MOST noble work you'll ever do but like with anything, it takes awareness, intention, and practice until it just becomes part of who you are.
Your Unruly Self helps you recalibrate to who TF you are so the big dreams and ambitions and life you want become possible.
Modules you can do in a weekend, prompts that get you out of your head, choose your own adventure actions depending on how spicy and bold you're feeling.
A lifetime resource with free updates as long as the program exists because recalibration is never a one and done.
My fave question....
What do you GET to have the rest of your life because you went all-in on you...
Hi! I'm Jen Vertanen, founder & CUO of We the Unruly
The Unruly Success Method™ is the antidote to patriarchal b.s. and Your Unruly Self is one small but VERY important part of it because WHO you're being is what makes — or doesn't make — what you want possible.
I am a life and business coach, speaker, author, podcaster, and retreat host helping accomplished women (founders, authors, speakers, artists, coaches, etc.) stop performing "success" and start living it from their Unruly Self with impact, ripples, and quality of life as the real measures of success.
My work has been shaped by 2+ decades in senior leadership, my own decade+ of deep identity work, and years of practice showing up as my full AuDHD, charmingly awkward, brilliant (but not in the street smarts category), unapologetic self.
Let's go! The world needs YOU and the impacts you're here to have now more than ever
